If you are single this holiday, do not go out in a desperate quest to find someone to fill your holiday partnerless gap. Instead of an out of control campaign to find someone before the New Years ball falls in Times Square, NYC, take this time to learn something new about yourself.
Singledom is a Unique Opportunity to Find Your Soulmate
Singledom does not have to be a curse. You should never be embarrassed about being single, no matter how old you are. You should be embarrassed about getting wasted and waking up with random people. That is definitely not the way to find a meaningful and fulfilling relationship.If you find yourself experiencing the singleness blues this holiday season, just look at a few stars who have it all and still cannot seem to find true love.
The Curse of the Reality TV!
One unfortunate partnership to hit the rocks this year was Khloe and Lamar.
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| Khloe Kadashian and Lamar Odom |
What made this marriage fall apart is anyone's guess.
I believe it was the curse of the reality show.
Khloe and Lamar were so in love or so it seemed. You can never tell with reality TV.
Rumour has it that Khloe is already hooking up with another athlete. What does this say?
Well, simply, she clearly does not want to be alone for the holidays and has quickly found someone to stand in Lamar's place for the holidays.
Another holiday hookup in my view is Harry Styles and the smallest Kadashian sister, Kendall. They were seen going on a date and the rumour mills have been churning ever since. All I can say is, if people are getting together so close to the holidays, then these romances will be done and dusted by Valentines Day. Remember, you heard it here first!
However, Khloe and Lamar were not the first couple to fall victim to the curse of the reality show.
Do you remember the loved up Peter Andre and Katie Price? A romance which
started in the - I am a Celebrity, Get me out of Here! - jungle and spun into a
reality TV show. For many episodes the couple paraded their love on TV and then
almost overnight it was over - people wondered if it was a TV stunt - but it was not.
What happened? The reality show curse, of course!
What about an American newlyweds turned Exes - Jessica Simpson and Nic Lachey?
According to People Magazine Online, Nick Lachey Hasn't Talked to Ex-Wife Jessica Simpson in Six Years. Who would have believed that their marriage would have ended so badly?
Who would have known that divorce was in the cards for this fairy-tale couple.
Perfection is an Imaginary State
These failed marriages should prove to you that even the most beautiful people are not guaranteed a happily ever after. So if you are feeling that you are not good-looking enough, rich enough, funny enough or not enough in general, just remember, even those who you think have all of those things, are still not good enough.
What it means is that, no one is perfect, so give yourself a break! Learn to love the skin you are in. At the end of the day, all you have is yourself. If you won't stand up for yourself, then who will? Give yourself a hug and smile because you are perfect just as you are!
So if you are single be happy that you have the opportunity to find someone who was meant for you. On the bright side, at least you are not stuck in a loveless relationship. The holidays can be tough if you are single as you see everyone around you having fun with their partners. However, what you see on the outside is not always what is happening on the inside. I had my worst break-up ever at Christmas! It was so painful, in that moment, I would have given anything to be far away from the maddening crowd. A painful and sad New Years after a Christmas breakup is the worse! So you are lucky you will not have to endure this pain. You can start the New Year with a clean slate and a joyous spirit!
In case you are wondering what you can do for the holidays, I will give you some hints next week. So keep your head held high, keep keeping on and watch this space!
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